Normally, when I feature a guest post I spend more time introducing it than it’s content lasts.
Today is different.
I will only say that when I started reading I had not noticed who wrote it. All I knew was that I was captivated by this post … and thought that you might be too:
““I don’t have much time left, really.”
My father’s voice on the other end of the line reminds me of my grandfather’s.
It’s been nearly ten years since I heard that voice. I’m making beds. I can see Dad at his breakfast table.
“At best, maybe fifteen years. I’m on my last chapter.” He pauses and I let the empty space beckon answers.
Grandpa died at eighty. Dad will turn sixty-three this coming year.
“I need a plan. I don’t think I’ve had one.”
I pull the sheets up, smooth out the bed’s coverlet in coming light, then wait, listening to Dad think.
I’m hesitant to say anything. Best he find the way.
But I’m still, just standing here, knowing that we are moving out into hallowed ground. I wait. Then venture into the space with only a question.
“Well, how do you want that last chapter to read, Dad?”
“I want to end happy.”
I sit on the edge of the bed, sunlight warm on my back, and ask slowly, “And what do you think brings happiness?””
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I was very touched by this post and read all the comments too: so good to know I am not the only one struggling with family-relationships; I know relationships are more important than anything else in my life: I try to work on those as good as I can but I make mistakes and I am so thankfull God is helping and learning me with that.
Esther, Thanks for your sincere response. How we choose to use our time IS such a common problem for us all. The constant tyranny of the urgent makes us forget just how important those around us are to us … how we take those we love most, the most for granted. It was certainly a good reminder for me as well. Blessings on your day, Carole
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