Almost thirty years of marriage!
That’s what hubby and I will be celebrating in a few weeks.
Thirty years ago our understanding of love was not what it is now. There have been seasons when my perspective on marriage was all about me, or all about him … not where it should have been. Eventually we all need to land where it is supposed to be, if we ever hope to thrive in marriage … in life.
Gary Thomas said, “the irony is that thriving and celebration is rooted outside the marriage rather than within it …
When God rather than your marital status defines your life, marriage changes dramatically. ”
“don’t be wishing you were someplace else or with someone else. Where you are right now is God’s place for you. Live and obey and love and believe right there. God, not your marital status, defines your life” (1 Cor. 7:17).”
God, not your marital status, defines your life
I had thought that in being married the definition of my life was being constructed, but then I discovered that if I first allow God to define my life, my marriage is one of the first areas of life to improve, to thrive. Mainly this is because …
love is no longer defined by what I do for hubby, or what he does for me, but by who God is.
This marriage (ours, everyone’s) is not about me, it’s not about him … it is and was and will ever be the outliving of our relationship with God. Not about me or he, but about God’s strength in the midst of our weaknesses, God’s purposes in the midst of our wanderings, God’s love in the midst of our selfishness.
Our marriage is a reflection of God in our lives … some days a poor one, some days much clearer. We reflect best when we are reflecting the love of God, rather than reflecting each other or ourselves.
We love each other best when we love each other as God’s creation and through His eyes, rather than our own.
God, not your marital status, defines your life.
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