
Almost two years ago we moved to our current home, a townhouse.
It was a bit of an adjustment, moving from a single family home, on acreage, to a townhouse on a busy road. The lack of privacy, the noise from the road, the sounds of people’s voices as they walk by, when the windows are opened, the absence of the sound of the coyotes calls in the quiet of the night.
Now, I quite love our home. I love how every square foot is so well utilized, I love my more modern kitchen, the spacious shower in the master bath, how perfectly our basement family room is for watching movies, how close we are to everything we could need.
Our home is lovely to us … just like our neighbors. They moved into their townhouse a year after us. Like ours, theirs is an end unit. Like us, they have made it their own … painted walls, planted flowers … it is a shelter from the elements, a place of refuge. Their home is like ours in so many ways, except that our homes are reversed … basically theirs is the mirror image of ours … exactly the same features and value, just opposite.
If I was cooking dinner and saw smoke coming from my side window, I would stop what I was doing. I would run outside to see where the smoke was coming from. If, when I got outside, I saw flames coming from my neighbor’s home, I would call 911, I would bang on their door to make sure they were not in the house, I would scream “fire” to alert other neighbors.
I would not be occupied about what color to paint my bathroom, or if I should replace the carpet on the stairs with carpet or wood, nor would I stop to change the lightbulb on the outdoor light fixture. Because, in that moment, if my neighbor’s house was on fire, their home would need the attention.
So, moral of the story …
Yes, ALL lives matter, in that they all have equal, God-given value, but when a specific group is at risk, well that’s where our attention should be.
#blacklivesmatter
You have understood the meaning of that hashtag. That is all it has ever meant not that other lives do not matter, just that they are not always in danger. Thank you.
Thank-you Pene, for your affirmation of my understanding. My heart has been heavy for those who truly are in danger. I hope that I am learning how to listen, to support and to help those in danger.
Carole
Yes you are. Have a great day.
A great comment, Carole. Timely, too.
My mind has been constantly preoccupied with how to see this issue of all and some. I think this helped me to put it into order, in my mind.
Carole
A great comment, Carole. Timely, too.