On January 1st I received my annual report for my blog … this blog.
It is full of fun and interesting facts (well … fun and interesting to me), as well as eye-catching graphics.
Apparently I published 323 new posts in 2013 … wow! I guess I had a few things to say!
Viewers located itsawonderfilledlife on FaceBook, Pinterest, Twitter, websites with links to this blog, email subscriptions, as well as intriguing Google searches.
Although most visitors to this blog came from Canada, the US and UK were not far behind.
The most viewed posts of 2013 were:
Things Not to Say to a Parent of a Child with Disabilities
What a Christian School is What it is Not
Top 10 Goals for 2013-Marriage
The first two are guest posts, by fantastic writers writing about issues that touch many. The following three are Carole-originals.
Apparently hubby was my most active commenter … I guess he had a few things to say too!
There have been almost 50,000 hits to itsawonderfilledlife since the first post in March of 2011.
2013 ended with 753 ‘followers’ of itsawonderfilledlife.
The average daily number of views, in 2013, was 51.
So …
big deal!
what does it matter?
who cares?
do stats tell us anything?
As I sat looking over the stats I was amused, I was entertained, but mostly I was thankful.
Thankful that this daily practice … one for my own good … has also been enjoyed by others.
If you want to know the truth, the stats are cool …
but, they are not as rewarding as the comments.
Some comments are on the site, but most come in the form of emails, of messages, and even face-to-face conversations. Most often they start this way :
“What you wrote today was just what I needed / I could so relate to what you shared / I had no idea that I was not the only one who had this happen / I had that happen to me too / thank-you”
The more real, the more vulnerable, the more honest I am in my writing …
the more of you say thank-you.
Maybe, just maybe, what we all seek most is what is
real
vulnerable
honest
Maybe, just maybe, we are all starving for that which is really real?
Really real is messy, embarrassing, humiliating …
but every time I peel back another layer of this onion skin shell of a facade someone says to me
thank-you.
The stats are fun and interesting facts (and maybe one day they will blossom to the point that I am writing this for my heart, mind, soul and bank account 😉 ), but it is the comments that make me eager to get up and do it all again tomorrow.
So, from the bottom of my heart,
thank-you.